Incredible Woman..

what should i say about woman which is not said before. which word should i use to personify women. 26 alphabets of English literature are not enough to depict the generosity and importance of a woman in today's  world. by the way, it would be incorrect to say "in today's world" because its not only about the contemporary rather women are the core part since "mankind" exist. we are here, because of them. i have already told you all, today i will not say anything which is said before nor i am going to persuade you all that women are ahead than man and they are walking step to step with men and sometimes ahead than them too, because its all kinda obvious and we are witnessing that definitely still this world is male dominated society and what i personally feel its only because women let it happen not because they are fool but only because women have a inbuilt trait to sacrifice,to compromise,to adjust,to care and other adjectives will fall less to depict this wonderful creature.but when they pull up there socks and get ready to take there position,mind you all testosterone holders,god will also hesitate to help you all.you do one thing,just activate the locomotion of thoughts in your mind, and picture the image of all ladies in your vicinity. your Mom, she is that person, because of whom you exist, who made you that much capable to even think. nourished you and brought you up to this stage. your sister who is always with you in your every activity, shares with you, her every happiness,supports you in your bad times. your girlfriend/wife,your soul mate,who have dedicated her whole life to be your companion for eternity,who have left her own parents,her own home and attached memories long away and even her surname. like this,women are part of your life in various relations and form and are pillars of your success.

Lastly,i would like to say lets take the oath to give respect and love to our incredible women.

Story Of 5 Brothers...

hey hey wake up, dont make your own thoughts or any illusion, that its a legendary story of any 5 brothers of some mughal trimes...well news flash, you are wrong..its a story of ,mine and we five brothers...my this post of ashish expressions is like my confession post, as i will confess many things....we are five brothers, viz. rakesh Gupta, Vikash Gupta, Gautam Gupta, Ashish Gupta(me), and Aditya Gupta..

Rakesh(hiru bhaiya): he is a senior software engineer in a MNC based in Hartford, Connecticut, USA. he is a scholar since childhood, since infant i have been counting my years, hearing his list of achievments. even till now, my mumma says, 'sikho kuch bhaiya se' and i just nod. he is of girl's choice, tall dark and handsome, very sexy, a perfect blend of hot and cool, nice combo naa!! we are searching a beautiful bride for him, then he will be a man, not a boy. and i am more excited for his mairrage than him, i dont know why but yaa i am. the best part of him is magnetic and arresting smile. i m very open and frank with him, and close to him. i dont hesitate to share anything to him. he is my gaurdian. he picks up my lies immediately, but ironically, he dont kick on my ass post that, rather, passes it away in fun. thanks for everything bhai.. love u...

Vikash(sonu bhaiya): he is also a senior software engineer  in a MNC based in South Korea. he is as same as hiru bhai in most of the aspects (except few). he is also a scholar since childhood. soft, sober, sweet, gentle, decent, calm, composed, and am running out of words to define him. very mature in thinking, but looks very younger than his age, once a accquaintance of us, addressed him as a high school kid, lol. he have innocence at his best. he understands me very well, understands my demands, ant tries to fulfill them too, as i demand a lot from him. he is aslo like my gaurdian, take cares of me a lot. i afraid that his innocence never fades or vanish and stay with him till eternity...God bless you bro.. cheers!!!!!!!

Gautam Bhaiya: he runs our garment business in our home town. Chocolaty, extremly, fair, bubbly, extremly handsome, whenever i ask one of my female childhood friend about her crush , she says, your bro gautam, infact most of my friends say that he looks like shahid kapoor. calm n composed, simple living, nothing very luminous about him. he is very strict with me, abut loves me a lot, i have seen that. he rarely says no to me. take care of me a lot. hats off to his patience, he have very nice event management skill too. thanks bhaiya...

Ashish( me): well when i will start describing about me, perhaps, this post will never end, so lets just skip, mine part and move ahead...

Aditya( bunty): Kiddo, extremly cute, funny, humorous, own way of living, very aggresive, smart, handsome, very sharp minded, clever, flawless skin. he is the youngest in our home, so he gets a lot of pampering. right now he have given his engineering entrance examination, and i hope he will do well. when ever he asks me, bhai how am i looking? i make bad face, and say not too good, but honestly speaking he is damn smart and cute..highly fashion consious. always be like this dude.

so, here ends my bothers and here end my world. naaa naa my post will remain incomplete without one person, my sister, Neha gupta, i know iknow, its a post of my brothers, then from where she parked her place here, well, i always search for a chance to boast of her, i feel extremly proud of her, my chest gets fully inflated when i talk of her. he is a topper since childhood, got under ten rank in all india medical examination. currently she is pursuing medical from delhi. she never talks to me in a nice tone, but thats just her way of showing care and concern for me. she is beautifull. thank you docter saheb for evrything. love you!!!

i feel so blessed to have you all as my siblings. i promise and i oath, that i will stand on all your expectations from me..
Touchwood....<3

A Random thought of my Detour!!!

A tsunami is about to prowl in my mind. this time, my mind is a habitat of, chaos, of millions of thoughts that are very hapazard. the tuffest thing in this world is to bring change in any ongoing phenomena. newton's first law of motion is also valid in this case,  why it is so hard to bring change????!!!! when i know that this is right and that is wrong. and moreover if i want to inculcate  that right part into me, then also!!
Only the desire of anything is not that enough, either desire and make a illusion of it in your mind, or put the real effort to accomplish that desire, and enjoy the real juice and sauce of life. the problem with we animals, is that we think 'let it flow, as it is going'...it takes a lot of effort and inner strength to turn the table. Change is always painful that can be virtually be compared with the pain suffered by the mother while delivering a baby.
the origin of all problems is 'lack of self control'.
now the remedy is ' self introspection' and a restless mind can not perform this tuff job. a restless mind only deceit you and this is ineluctable. Nobody is impeccable. you can check your languished state only with stable mind.
Be prudent and frenetic with full determination. No destination is far away, No paramount is untouchable....

A Pious Gift by Almighty!

Just now, some one have texted me a message that follows, ' These 26 alphabets are not that enough to depict my expressions for my friendship. '. Now you wonder, is this true in this today's harsh, selfish, competitive, and leg pulling world. Yesterday, a acquaintance of mine, was feeling very low, just because he was single. And he added, 'buddy, i want some girl in my life, who will be only mine, who will take care of me, who will be possessive regarding me, who will be concerned about my where about, i want a girl, i want a girlfriend, after that no worries in life '.
Now that compelled me to think, 'can only a girlfriend fill that vacant space in his life!'
In my perspective the answer is big No.
When i first came in bbd national institute of technology, i was very sacred and unsure about the friends company, that i will get here in college. But today with full pride, i can announce, " I have got the best friends in the world ", who are not only good by their anatomy but by their soul too. In alphabatical order Viz Abhishek Singh, Alok Yadau, Praveen Singh, Raj Pandey Rahul Singh, Sanjeev and me, they are the answers and proof of all the above dilemma. Made for each other, we share all aspects that a love birds enjoy, (dont ever dare to touch that aspect, dirty people, dirty mind, we all are straight.) we care for each other more than anybody else, we are possessive regarding each other, we stand for each other, and above all, the top of the story is, we understand each other silence. Here no one owns anything, its of everybody in our group. Oops! Not 'group', otherwise when Simon will read my blog, he will snatch my collar, his face gets red whenever anybody tag our friend circle as group.
Abhishek (simon): he is smarty, handsome, as his nick name suggest, he is extra fair, that add glitters to his persona, very pure by his heart, very kind, and clever. And in my opinion, he is the 'bacha' of our group. He was the first friend of mine in college. In the mean time, we got bit away from each other, but now again he is my best friend. God bless!
Alok (paggal): one day me and pravin were discussing about alok, pravin said, alok is Royal and i nodded. This word perfectly suits his personality. He doesnt give a bit weight to girls, like other boys do, for him, his family and his friends, is his world. Sober and simplicity and no show off describes his personality. Always be happy!
Pravin (buddhau): He is the man( that doesnt mean, we others are impotent) he is the only person with whom i am very close. He is kinda different from others. His everything is so charismatic, infectious, arresting, magnetic and all other adjectives are not optimum to depict my friend into words. He is very mature than his age. He knows what to do, what not to do, when to do, how to do, where to do. Why to do, whom to do. What to speak, what to not speak blah blah. Very sharp minded. He is like grand father, his advice and his opinion is very worth. Cheers pravin!!
Rahul (ram laal): calm as silent volcanco, gentle personality, very ambitious, very kind and helpful, and very pious and pure by his heart. He has a good anatomy too. He is another 'bacha' of our group. He never takes any taking by his heart, provided its not a big issue! Dont ever dare to change yourself rahul!
Raj (pandey): Raj sir, mr. Dabang, Mr. Angry young man, but as soft as dove from inside. He will always be the last man standing for you, just ask him for help, and he will be in front of you. Very genourous and audacious. Hats off to you man!
Sanjeev (bampu): Superstar Rajnikant wil feel inferior in front of him. He is the open encyclopedia. And it will not be ironical to state, just give him a word or a topic from any remote edge of this world, and he will have a elaborate description of that in front of you. He adds sauce and colour to our group. Very confident and mature. Love you bampu!
So here ends my world. And got a dead end to my dilemma, that is this type of 'jai viru' still survives. In fact if sholay would have been shooted now, combo of jai and viru must have been inspired by our friendship:)
Touch wood:)

A piece of paradise

Childhood memories, just curtain down your eyes with the aid of your eye lashes and your face wil wear a refreshing smile with out any effort. Those are the best part of my life. And i can bet for most of us. Everything was so easy and cozy. No tensions, no worries, no usual linings on the forehead, just lost in our ownselves, far away from the jargon of this complicated world. Everybody believes that, people get more sensible and mature and disciplined with their age but when i recaptualate those memories, i discover that i was more disciplined at that time than today. Waking up at the dawn, regular bath, (now i skip some days) regular attendance in school, joining my hands in the name of god in the evening pre switching on the lights, regular update of assignments and homeworks, i will not feel at all shy to call myself a mummas boy, yes i was. And that was a divine blessing that i have lost. Again i want to become the same mumma's boy. I myself couldn't identify, who i was and now who i m.
Everything was so light. When anybody ask me, who was your first crush, i throw a 'dont ask me please' look. Then i ponder, over past, ok in class 10th, no in class 7th, no, it was perhaps in, and my sight goes vague, and i couldnt find any plausible reply, from my brain history section. Love happened in every session of my school days, and with every increase in the count of my academic standard, i felt this time it is real love. I still remember, when i was in 10th standard, every morning, with my first step in my class, i used to check my crushes's school bag, that whether she have come today or not. And just after returning home from school, crushing all the crushes, and get engage in playing, watching tom n jerry, and other. Which is way much better than todays breakups, shattering and scattering of hearts, betrayals, bluffs, n all.
No backbitings, no jealousy, no ill feelings, no corrupt and polluted mind, now i understand why childrens are considered next to God.
I miss that part of my life. I miss that piece of paradise.